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# Fighting False Abuse Allegations in a Colorado Custody Case
- URL: https://blog.denverdivorce.com/false-allegations-custody-colorado/
- Published: 2026-10-13T14:00:00.000Z
- Updated: 2026-10-13T14:00:00.000Z
- Description: An abuse allegation in a Colorado custody case triggers procedures the judge cannot skip, but the allegation does not decide the case. How claims enter a case, what the law requires the court to do, how to respond without making it worse, what a DHS finding means, and remedies when a claim fails.
- Author: Aaron Herzberg
- Tags: Children

An accusation of abuse in a custody case changes the case the day it is made. Colorado law now requires the judge to run a specific analysis before allocating any parenting time or decision-making, and the accusation itself, whether or not it is true, can bring supervised contact within a week. Parents on the receiving end feel the process is rigged against them. It is not, but it is built to take allegations seriously, and the parent who responds with discipline rather than fury usually ends up in a better position than the parent who made the claim without evidence. This article is written for the accused parent.

## How Allegations Enter a Case

- A civil protection order under C.R.S. § 13-14-104.5\. A temporary order can issue ex parte on a finding of "a risk or threat of physical harm or the threat of psychological or emotional harm," with a hearing within 14 days. Since 2025 a county court can attach temporary care and control of the children for up to a year.
- A motion to restrict parenting time under § 14-10-129(4). If the motion alleges imminent danger with particularity, contact is supervised until a hearing held within 14 days.
- A child and family investigator or parental responsibilities evaluator. Since HB24-1350 (effective August 7, 2024), a CFI or PRE must include in the report all information acquired about domestic violence or child abuse, regardless of how it was acquired, "including by accusation," and regardless of who presented it, including a child.
- A county human services referral. Teachers, doctors, and therapists are mandatory reporters. A referral produces an assessment and one of three findings, discussed below.
- A police report. Knowingly reporting a crime that did not occur is false reporting under C.R.S. § 18-8-111, a class 2 misdemeanor, but prosecutions arising from custody disputes are rare, and a parent should not count on one.

![The Byron R. White U.S. Courthouse, Denver](https://storage.ghost.io/c/9c/7f/9c7f0f22-0ab1-4be3-88a9-68ce015e9524/content/images/2026/09/false-allegations-custody-colorado.jpg)

The Byron R. White U.S. Courthouse, Denver. Photo: Carol M. Highsmith, Library of Congress (public domain).

## Why the Court Must Take the Allegation Seriously

Section 14-10-124(1.5) directs the court to give "paramount consideration" to the child's safety. When a claim of child abuse, neglect, or domestic violence is made, subsection (4)(a) requires the court, before it reaches the ordinary best-interests factors, to decide by a preponderance of the evidence whether abuse or violence occurred. A finding carries consequences: no joint decision-making over the objection of the other parent or the child's legal representative, absent credible evidence the parents can decide safely together; conditions on parenting time such as supervision, no overnights, protected exchanges, and no alcohol for 24 hours before contact; and a domestic-violence evaluation. Subsection (9), added in 2024, requires a judge who orders unsupervised time despite any accusation, including one made by a child, to state on the record why that is in the child's best interests.

Kayden's Law, C.R.S. § 14-10-127.5, adds more. The court must consider past protection orders, arrests, convictions, and letters from victim advocates; must consider evidence of coercive control; may admit expert testimony only from experts with experience working with victims that is "not solely forensic"; must give strong consideration to a child's stated preference if consistent with safety; and may not remove a child from a protective parent or order reunification treatment to repair a relationship with an accused parent except on scientifically valid proof.

None of this decides the case. The Court of Appeals in *In re Marriage of Pawelec* (2024) affirmed an award of primary parenting time to a father accused of domestic violence, holding that a violence finding is a factor the court must weigh "alongside the myriad other statutory factors," not a trump card. The procedure is mandatory; the outcome is not.

## How to Respond

- Obey every order to the letter. A protection-order violation is a crime under C.R.S. § 18-6-803.5 and becomes the case. Do not call, text, or send messages through the child or a relative. Do not go to the house.
- Preserve everything: the full message threads, call logs, location history, receipts, photographs, the parenting-app record. Do not delete anything, and do not create anything new for the file.
- Get counsel before the CFI, PRE, or county interview. The interview is not a deposition, but the notes are discoverable and they shape a report the judge will read. Answer what is asked, do not volunteer theories about the other parent, and do not bring a binder. If a psychological question is in play, a rebuttal expert must meet the § 14-10-127.5 experience requirements.
- Build the timeline. An accusation that appears the week after a relocation motion, or the day after a child support hearing, reads differently than one reported to a pediatrician months before anyone filed anything.
- Line up collateral witnesses with no stake: the teacher, the coach, the daycare director, the pediatrician, the neighbor. Judges and investigators weight these people far above family members.
- Gather the child's records: school attendance and behavior notes, medical visits, prior counseling. Therapy records may require a court order because of privilege; do not pressure a therapist or a child for them.
- Think before invoking the Fifth Amendment. It is available in a civil case, but a family court may draw an adverse inference from silence.
- Do not question or record the child about the allegation, and do not ask what the child told the investigator.

## Founded, Inconclusive, Unfounded

Colorado's county departments close an abuse assessment with one of three findings under state rule: "founded," meaning a preponderance of the evidence supports abuse or neglect; "inconclusive," meaning the department could not determine whether it occurred; and "unfounded," meaning the evidence did not support it. Other states use "substantiated" and "unsubstantiated," and the terms get mixed up in Colorado pleadings. The distinction that matters is between founded and everything else. A founded finding can be appealed to the state and, if it stands, lands in the state's child welfare database. An inconclusive finding is not exoneration and not proof, and the accusing parent will describe it as a near miss; the answer is to put the underlying assessment in front of the judge. A family court is not bound by any county finding, but it will read it.

## Remedies When the Allegation Fails

The first remedy is the one judges control: a written credibility finding. A judge who finds a parent testified falsely about abuse will say so in the order, and that finding follows the accuser through every later motion in the case. In *In re Marriage of Wiggs* (2025) the Court of Appeals affirmed a permanent protection order against a husband based in part on evidence that he had lied to police to have his wife arrested and later filed a false break-in report.

Fee awards follow. Section 14-10-129(5) makes fees mandatory when a motion to restrict was substantially frivolous, groundless, or vexatious. Section 14-10-129.5(4) makes fees mandatory against a parent who withheld court-ordered time, and permits fees against a parent who filed a groundless enforcement motion. A protection-order petitioner is generally shielded from fees, except under the general frivolous-claims statute, C.R.S. § 13-17-102\. The blog's post on fee shifting under § 14-10-119 covers the rest.

The largest remedy is on the merits. Fabricating abuse and recruiting a child to repeat it is, under *In re Marriage of Hatton* (2007), emotional abuse and a form of endangerment. That meets the standard for changing decision-making under § 14-10-131 and, in serious cases, the child's primary residence under § 14-10-129(2). And a parent who makes false allegations has failed, on the record, the best-interests factor about encouraging the child's relationship with the other parent.

## The Counter-Accusation Trap

The instinct to answer an allegation with one of your own is strong and almost always wrong. A retaliatory motion to restrict draws the same mandatory fees. Mutual protection orders require the court to make separate, sufficient findings for each side, which rarely happens on a retaliatory record. And a judge who sees two parents trading accusations stops trying to sort out who is right, appoints a CFI or PRE, orders supervised exchanges for both, and assumes the children are being harmed by the conflict itself. The parent who stays on the evidence and off the offense is the one the court comes to trust.

## Talk to a Denver Divorce Attorney About False Allegations

Aaron Herzberg is a divorce attorney in Greenwood Village, Colorado, serving Denver and the Front Range, with more than 30 years of trial experience and a practice focused on divorce, custody, and financially complex family law. The first two weeks after an accusation set the trajectory of the case, and the decisions made before the first interview are the ones that cannot be undone. A first meeting is a paid consultation, not a free call and not a sales pitch.

Read the full guides on DenverDivorce.com: [False Allegations in Colorado Custody](https://denverdivorce.com/practice-areas/false-allegations.html?ref=blog.denverdivorce.com) and [Protection Orders in Colorado](https://denverdivorce.com/practice-areas/protection-orders.html?ref=blog.denverdivorce.com).

*Educational information only, not legal advice. Reading this article does not create an attorney-client relationship.*